I was talking to a friend of mine recently and she asked a puzzling question to me “are we friends?”
So this got me thinking on a subject for you see we both go to school together we hang out and go shopping and share secrets so what are the chances off seeing one another after we both graduate? So here is the question do you have friends with expiration dates
Work friends
School friends
Best friends
But expiration friends can we put a date on friendship?
are we as lhuman beings become so robotic with our feels that we feel the need to discarded after a certain date? Like cleaning out your room do we clean out our lives our friends our social network as we know it?
Is friendship becoming just another fad until we find the right one for use?
Like take a friend of mine she's a great friend and a wonderful person to be around, yet one of her best friends has a boyfriend now and has completely discarded her and will only talk to her when her boyfriend is not around, are friends just here to amuse us?
Occupy the time until the love of now comes back?
Now I put this to you how many friends have u let go?
lost contact with?
let drift into he abyss of no return? The person you pass on the street and notice your feet moving faster, your skin going numb, yet there is not one signal reason for this to happen, yous never finished on a bad note were always but then the “drift of life” just kicks in. Or if you do happen to stop and say hi to them or vise versa and say how are you doing with a few short words then the most common experience to happen the 5.5 seconds silence and the glad to see you awkward glance in the other direction fake smile and the bye bye hope not to see you again.
Now if you have ever had an experience like that you know what I am talking about the friend that got away no reason behind it if you have never had an experience like that you are a very lucky person
Over the years I have had countless friends fall into the abyss without a reason just stopped talking and it dose make me feel sad as I write knowing that some of them were some of my best friends.
I am hoping it dose not happen again to the friends I have now.
Which is why I ask you if you do have an expiration friend or a friend that is heading for the abyss, don’t let it happen it is a sad day when friend disappears
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